
On-air personality, Toke Makinwa, who hit digital space recently with her latest blog amidst marital hitch, has described herself as “a proud snooper.”
Makinwa admitted that snooping was bad, but stated that women were left with no option than use it in monitoring the level of their husbands’ faithfulness.
It will be recalled that the media personality and her husband, Maje Ayida have been embroiled in some heavy family issues; from Maje impregnating his long time side chick, Anita Solomon only months after he got married to his wife and his apologies months later, acknowledging his fault.
Toke eventually opened up on the controversy, saying her case was meant to strengthen other women, who were passing through a similar experience.
“It is funny how God uses even the most unbelievable things to bless you. I have been given a voice, a platform, but I woke up one day and I found God, and with that came purpose.
“It is never about you. Sometimes you go through things not for yourself, but for the people around you, who need direction. It is tough being a woman, the pressure is real. You don’t have to be a victim; you can rise above it all. Do not let the society tell you otherwise. Be bold, be strong,” she said.
Toke thereby, urged women, who said snooping was wrong to reconsider their position.
“You should snoop. People have found out that their houses are on fire; people have found out that they are married to other women’s husbands. I am a proud snooper and this is my advice for you.”
Toke said women passed through emotional pain while prying into their husband’s telephones. Yet, she advised, they had to because “men are wicked.”
“I am a proud snooper; this is me. When you snoop your boyfriend or your husband, it is like you are stealing from the pot. But what else should we do?” she asked.
To victims of extra-marital affairs, Toke opined that they should be courageous to dump men, who would not love and be faithful to them.